If you are not using a stick blender I recommend getting one of the cheap ones, but if you are hand mixing make sure you mix it for several minutes, rest, mix, rest, mix some more. I have had a few hand mixed lotions fail to fully emulsify because I thought I had mixed it enough.
heat phase
22.68 g emulsifying wax
8.5 g stearic acid
15 g shea butter
5.66 g coconut oil
10 g Apricot kernel oil
8.5 g rice bran oil
cool down/emulsification phase
8.5 honeyquat
333 g distilled water (hot)
100 g isopropyl myristate
apricot fragrance
1% Optiphen